Concern

I will be a 24 years girl that is old. We dropped in love, no times, no conferences included, pure want to a pure person that is religious. He promised to marry me and asked me to watch for him as their circumstances are hard. I really do maybe not keep in mind which he called me personally over and over again. We asked him not to ever phone me personally; although I love him because I feel this is wrong. We felt which our love started moving in the way, he decided to this feeling, and respected my estimation. He simply delivers me emails from time to time via internet, in order that I’m sure their news. Year we have been in this love relationship for one. This person is known by me and their family members, plus they understand us well also. He is loved by me for Allah’s sake and sure he really loves me personally too. The issue is that we began proposals that are receiving about 8 to date. Each time we refuse because we promised to hold back for him. Now i will be confused, is really what i’m doing halal or haram? We pray, Alhamdulillah, all obligatory and prayers that are optional and pray qiyaam in the evening too; We worry We lose my good deeds because of the things I have always been doing. Is a chaste love haram that is pure? Is my like to him haram or halal?.

Solution

Praise be to Allah.

To start with we ask Allaah to help you and give you delight, and I ask Him to boost the amounts of girls with problems that we read about and hear of, in which there is a lesson for every Muslim and for every wise person like you who are keen to maintain chastity and purity and adhere to the sacred limits of Allaah in their affairs, among the most important of which are emotional relationships that many people take lightly, so they overstep the mark and transgress the sacred limits of Allaah, and Allaah tests them. Continue reading →